Stop Asking, “Why
Did You Do That?”

When you ask “why did you do that?” you show a lack of awareness. You seek reasons and reasons rarely exist. PEOPLE ALWAYS ACT EMOTIONALLY. They invent logical reasons to justify their actions to themselves and others, yet the reasons are just rationales and excuses and rarely have much to do with the facts. The reasons don’t really matter and no one could possibly know what they are. They lie buried in viewpoint, which is the result of all your past programming, including past lives.

• When you ask “why,” you demonstrate your lack of awareness.
   
• When you explain why, in response to someone questioning you, you demonstrate your lack of awareness. You also give away your power and reduce your self-esteem.
   
• You do what you do because that’s what you do. That’s why. And they do what they do because that’s what they do ... and that’s what is.

It’s important to distinguish between “why” questions that are intended to take away your power and “why” questions that are intended to clarify. For example”

• “Why didn’t you call me last week? I waited home every night by the phone.” This why question is intended to manipulate you into feeling guilty, resulting in a loss of self-esteem. Respond to this kind of why question with assertiveness techniques.
   
• “Why is it better to use olive oil than canola oil?” This why question is asking for clarification, and is intended to increase understanding. Thus answering it would not involve any loss of self-esteem.

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