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	HOLIDAY OFFER! 50% OFF on all Valley of the Sun books and CDs Go to www.prohypnosis2.com to find details on over 300 life-changing titles. NATIONAL GUILD OF HYPNOTISTS “SOLID GOLD WEEKEND” is this weekend in Las Vegas. Dick will be on panel Friday night and teach a workshop on the “New Media” Sunday. “5-DAY PROFESSIONAL HYPNOTIST TRAINING” conducted by Dick Sutphen, March 22-26, Los Angeles. Become a hypnotist and make $75 to $150 (or more) an hour. Certification through IHF. www.dicksutphen.com and click on Seminars. CUSTOM MIND-PROGRAMMING HYPNOSIS CDs / MP3s by Dick Sutphen, created to work on all the changes you desire in your life. They really work if you listen regularly. http://www.dicksutphen.com/html/privatesession.html The Level of Conflict In her book, Together: A Relationship Survival Kit, Virginia Downie claims conflicts on everything. Since no one feels happy and loving all the time, how can we expect our relationships to be harmonious all the time? Downie says, “You have known couples, for instance, who swore they ‘never fought or disagree,’ who seemed to be a perfect and enviable match but who ‘suddenly’ break up. You also know couples who seem to fight constantly, who, nevertheless, make it to the 50th anniversary seeming ‘non-the-worse-for-wear.’ “Why would this happen? Well, couple number one (who did not fight) was also not dealing with their differences, hurts, and disappointments, while couple number two (who often seemed perched at the edge of disaster) was actually working through their problems and challenges.” You can’t measure a relationship by the level of conflict. What’s important is how the conflict is being handled. The author goes on to provide a “nondefensive” self check list, such as asking for more information when your partner is upset, being accountable for your own mistakes, not giving in to avoid accountability and conflict. Et cetera. But I’ve seen cases where one partner is not willing to openly discuss their differences, hurts and disappointments. They repress them for years. Repression is like standing on a life raft to hold it under water. Eventually you’re going to get tired of holding it down and the raft will surface. The person’s mate will probably be surprised and confused by this eruption of frustration. “Why didn’t you tell me that bothered you so much?” they’ll say. If you’re the person who is repressing or the mate of someone you suspect is repressing, I suggest you turn to a good astrologer. Eruptions of frustration can usually be found in planetary cycles. Some Saturn oppositions can indicate a mid-life crisis, a time you can be assured the repressed stuff will surface. Pluto hits can turn your life upside down. Knowing your astrological challenges can provide forewarning. The awareness in itself won’t resolve anything, but you’ll learn what you’re dealing with, how long it’s going to last and how both parties are likely to be affected. Times of conflict are times for patience and compassion, as I’ve often talked about in this column. Realize that whenever you’re upset with someone else, you have expectations of approval or control -- of the other person approving of your actions or reactions, or of controlling their actions or reactions. In other words, your expectations are in conflict with what is. When conflict arises, become an observer of your life. No judgment, blame or expectations. Just observe. What is, is your partner is venting, growing, trying to become who they need to be. Granted, you can’t repress your own feelings, but ideally, because you understand what is, you can view the problem situation from a more self-actualized perspective. If your partner generates anger in you, refuse to identify with the anger. The anger is not you, it’s your ego -- your fear -- your past programming. Easier said than done? For sure. But if you view such challenges as karmic tests, winning the game is far more important than getting to be right. * * * * * "Dick Sutphen's Metaphysical World" radio show airs on www.contacttalkradio.com 11 AM -- 12 Noon (Pacific Time) every Wednesday. (This is the most popular show on the CTR network). Listen live on the web or download an archive show. We're also live on an FM station in Seattle and we're on satellite. In addition to our regular listeners, thousands have subscribed to have iTunes download the show into their iPods. Of the 58 shows on the network, Dick's is #1. To visit his page: http://www.contacttalkradio.com/hosts/dicksutphen.htm / iPod owners who would like to have the show downloaded: http://www.contacttalkradio.com/podcasts/Dick_Sutphen's_Meta physical_World.xml ************************************************** 2010 SUTPHEN SEMINARS: To learn more about Sutphen sponsored events, go to: www.dicksutphen.com and click “Seminars.” The events are all personally conducted by Dick Sutphen. ************************************************ We will be adding additional seminars and appearances, but for now, this is what we've pinned down: NGH SOLID GOLD WEEKEND -- Las Vegas, NV -- Feb. 20-21, 2010 This is a National Guild of Hypnotists "Best Of" gathering for the year. Dick will speak on marketing with the "New Media." INTERNATIONAL HYPNOSIS FEDERATION CONFERENCE -- San Pedro, CA -- Mar. 5-7 Shelly Stockwell heads up IHF, and she puts on a wild conference. Dick will be presenting. www.hypnosisfederation.com 5-DAY PROFESSIONAL HYPNOTIST TRAINING -- Marina del Rey, CA (Los Angeles) -- Mar. 22-26. Dick's world-famous training to teach you how to be a professional hypnotist, specializing in past-life regression, spiritual hypnosis and clinical hypnosis. www.dicksutphen.com LIFE-FORCE ACTIVATION SEMINAR -- Conducted by Dick & Tara Sutphen, Sedona, AZ -- April 9-11. Dick and Tara will present a weekend of shamanism and metaphysics in which you will greatly expand your awareness and experience answers directly from Spirit. Tara's "Life-Force Activation" process will energize and center you on a positive path of balance and success. She will unlock your psychic centers and assist you to make contact with your Spirit Guides and Higher Self, to channel and do automatic writing. Dick will offer Spirit-Contact Therapy and new Future Projection session that will explore the positive side of what will be happening over the next five years. You will leave the seminar feeling greatly empowered. www.dicksutphen.com LIFE-FORCE ACTIVATION SEMINAR -- Conducted by Dick & Tara Sutphen, Dallas, TX -- April 17-18 (same program as above in Sedona) A POSITIVE PSYCHIC PREVIEW: 5 Years into the Future -- A 2-day seminar conducted by Dick Sutphen. Pipestem, WV, April 24-25. Would you like to see for yourself what's going to happen to our world in the next five years? The seminar will be held at the Pipestem Spa. For more information and to find out about beautiful lodgings available: www.pipestemSpa.com / Phone: 304-466-1767. LIFE-FORCE ACTIVATION SEMINAR -- Conducted by Dick & Tara Sutphen, Lily Dale, NY -- May 1-2. (same program as above in Sedona and Dallas) 2-DAY HEALING SEMINAR -- Conducted by Dick Sutphen & Patti Conklin, in Marina del Ray, CA (Los Angeles). Dick will co-train with Patti Conklin, one of America's leading Medical Intuitives. Patti can identify the core issue of an illness utilizing her unique ability to see inside your body. She can pull disease right out of your body and take it into hers. Dick will teach his powerful techniques to heal with hypnosis (past-life carry over) and the help of Spirit. www.dicksutphen.com FLIGHT-TO-FREEDOM 7-DAY RETREAT -- Conducted by Dick & Tara Sutphen, In Lake Arrowhead, CA -- June 7-13. Limited to 12 people. Lodging and most meals included. Includes a private past-life regression with Dick and a psychic/astrology reading by Tara. Come to a beautiful home in the mountains and free your spirit. The goal of this intimate 7-day gathering is to soar beyond your current limitations and earthly concerns. For one week, a few people will work closely with Dick and Tara to explore their earthly destiny and dharma, which also releasing blocks, purging the past and pursuing personal liberation. www.dicksutphen.com THE NATIONAL GUILD OF HYPNOTISTS CONFERENCE -- Marlborough, MA, August 10. Dick will present workshops at the convention. www.ngh.net 5-DAY PROFESSIONAL HYPNOTIST TRAINING -- Featuring Past-Life Regression and Spiritual Hypnosis. Conducted by Dick Sutphen in Orlando, FL, August 23-27. www.dicksutphen.com SEDONA PSYCHIC SEMINAR -- Conducted by Dick & Tara Sutphen, Sedona, AZ, September 17-19. This is our most popular seminar. www.dicksutphen.com DICK SUTPHEN'S SCHOOL OF HYPNOSIS @ FELLOWSHIPS OF THE SPIRIT** in Lily Dale, NY, Tiers 1 & 2, Sept. 28 -- Oct. 3 /// Tiers 3 & 4, Oct. 26-31 * * * * * ON-LINE ORDERING of all Dick & Tara Sutphen books, tapes & CDs is now available at: www.prohypnosis2.com / www.mp3prohypnosis.com Or TOLL-FREE PHONE: 1-800-421-6603 / Or send a fax and credit card info to: 1-818-706-3606. Astrology charts, geographic location charts and special computerized charts and reports to help you create your own reality are available by clicking here. E-MAIL LIST To be included on Dick Sutphen’s Master of Life Column e-mail list, click HERE and in the SUBJECT slot type “Subscribe. *NOTE:* To ensure the successful delivery of this newsletter to your inbox, if you have spam e-mail filtering, please add: admin@sutphenweb.com to your email list, safe list, whitelist or address book. 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